Men Staring at Womens; Boobs at a Music Festival

But its not as simple a concept as you're making it seem here, either. also before we continue I want to point out that nothing written in this is absolute. these are generalizations. when I mention any group here, I'm not saying every person who identifies as part of the group is this way. not about that identity politics life. everyone is obviously different, however there are understandably generally-aligned perspectives on given issues within a group of people(again, to an extent(man, when you're talking to a large audience of people, all with different and conflicting views, it takes so much more time editing your writing to reflect what your actually trying to say to and accounting for people's rebuttals to your choice of words/arbitrary examples)). Not that I know, as I have not had the chance to live life as a bi woman.

But it seems to me like the difference is that you have the empathetic perspective of the subject(topless girl) as well. you have been on her side with someone staring a little too long or uncomfortably at you. so once that thought comes to mind while you're the one doing the looking, you instantly(maybe subconsciously) think of all the past experiences when you've felt exactly how you imagine they would feel if you were to do the same. guys on the other hand don't have people cat-calling and staring at them all day. and because of this, there isn't that instant recollection of "oh, yeah... I know how bad this feels to have done to you, I should stop" and honesty I imagine they're just dumbfounded to some extent, from seeing the beauty of the feminine figure in person(I do mean this sincerely women's body=flow, elegance, men's body=square, lumpy), in such abundance, and can't get their higher brain to processes to function past that(we're cavemen, I know). yes they still know you're a human being with all the intricacies and nuances that come along with that, but that isn't something people can see at first glance, thats something they find out from talking with you. also, guys don't necessarily have the I've-seen-it-every-day-for-my-whole-life perspective of seeing a woman's figure, like you do when looking in the mirror.

They have less experience with the female body than women, and humans are naturally interested with the unfamiliar, as well as they are with sexuality(due to the whole advancement of the human race and all). women are the supposed "gate keepers"(lack of a better term) of the species. they decide who gets to reproduce and who doesn't; they dictate evolution. and there absolutely is an attention component when you're a more desirable looking person, since, evolutionarily certain things attribute to health and fertility. the woman's way in choosing a partner relates to depth of character, personality, and cognitive ability as far as furthering/bettering humanity goes, its more the mental side of the equation. whereas guys look for symmetry, hip size, "curviness", "fitness", nurturing qualities etc because it shows a woman is physically healthy enough and physically able to carry their offspring to term and are equipped to care for them during their infancy. physical side of the equation. *now I want to reiterate that I am not talking in absolutes. obviously men want someone who shares his interests and im sure girls don't mind a sixpack, I'm just generalizing based on what we know.* as far as people being creepy goes. guys are just applying to get the chance to further their genetic material to the next generation, which explains the cat calling etc to an extent(not that its acceptable, just voicing what I've noticed). however this is clearly a failure to evolution and will not be getting any anyway so evolution saved. in sum, I think I can understand both sides of the argument here.