Acts of Kindness: Importance of Being Kind

Kindness can be define as a quality or behavior that shows the acts of generosity, being polite, considerate to others or concern for other people without asking for something in return. These acts of kindness are not only about being polite, but also encompass supporting others, aiding in boosting their self-confidence, being present during times of need, offering emotional support, and providing encouragement and motivation. When one consistently engages in acts of kindness, it becomes effortless to utter positive words and perform kind deeds, which are incredibly beneficial to those around him.

A person who shows pleasant attitude and some interest in others are considered to be kind. For others those people who are kind is having empathy. They are always willing to support others who around them, putting smile on others’ faces and they never hesitate to do good things to others. It does not necessarily simply doing anything important for them to demonstrate concern for others. They can do something as small as being sweet like giving emotional support if someone needs it. Giving those around you a smile can make them happy. Yes, it doesn’t take long to show an acts of kindness, but they can make a big difference in the life of the other person.

It is not required to be rich or to have more money in order for you to be nice to other people but you just need a heart that is good and have compassion. We should put in our mind that one place or the whole world can be a better and happy place , full of joy and no hatred if all people are good to each other. Believe it or not , every single one of us has something to share, spread and give to the world. We just need to embrace the facts that understanding the need showing an act of kindness can make the world peaceful and no division

One of the example of showing kindness that we should portray id the kindness of God to us. God is so generous to give us provision for all the things that we need, so meaning we should also practice to be kind to others and offer help in whatever way we can. Showing kindness to others should be selfless and without expecting something for return. Big act or small act of kindness should go to be unnoticed and it should not be announced. Meaning your motives in doing and showing kindness should always for the benefits of others not for your benefits to be popular. God knows who is having good motives because He is always watching us. God is always delighted when we do the right thing.

One of the benefits of being kind and being polite with others is it can change our mood into a good. Similarly, sharing a small word encouragement to others helps us feel good about ourselves because we do the right thing. Helping and being kind to others provides one with an immediate sense of fulfillment. Hoping that all of us are believing that everything we give comes back to us in abundance. However, is if we show kindness to someone in hopes of having anything in exchange, it is not considered an act of kindness. Rather, it is an act of selfishness.

What is the most common function that people in a relationship are looking for? There is little more than compassion. No one wants to be friends with rude, selfish, vain and haughty individuals. Everyone likes those who are pleasant, soft-hearted, kind and compassionate. We have to be kind to those around us, but we have to start with our loved ones, as it is said that charity begins at home.

Most people are kind and friendly to their neighbours, acquaintances and colleagues, but they are rude with their immediate family members, such as their spouse , parents, kids, and siblings. They scold them, pay them no heed, and often give in to their arguments. Such people should not be called nice, no matter how nice they are with people outside or the amount of charity they do. If they’re not kind at home, they’re just wearing a front to maintain a nice image outside. They’re probably upset inside, and all of their frustration comes out at home.

If a person, both at home and outside, is really kind at heart, he will be equally kind. Being good to people without expecting anything in return encourages inner peace and happiness. It makes life sweeter. Practicing kindness is not overwhelming. It should be each of us’s greatest goal to show kindness to those around us. Try it to see if this can be one of the most joyful moments in life.

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