True Love Can Be Found not Only in Movies

Love is not a temporary feeling or emotion. Emotion and feeling change, it depends on situation, thinking and expectations. But true love is everlasting. If you live together without expectation, if you see another person continuously without coming any thoughts in your mind, if you can compromise their expectations for another person, is it true love? Mother love their sons without any fear, expectations. Is it a love? You love with someone too much, but he/she say you I cannot with you in relationship due to some personal problems and you happily leave the person, is it a love? Some things that are not liked by you in another person, but you love that person, Is it a love? Yes, it is love, love means saying goodbye to expectations, love does not need to continue a relationship, love has no room for jealousy, love is the absence of fear, love is an action, not just a feeling, love is unconditional, love require attention, love makes you feel good, not bad.

Today, drug is very common in youngsters, the main reason behind this is love, they take drugs when they fail in love because they do not know the real meaning of love so I would like to tell one true story for understanding of youngsters what is true love.

A man married a girl she was very attractive. He liked her very much, once she faced a skin disease and her beauty was continuously down. One day her husband went for a business tour outside. When he was coming back from tour, he had an accident, in this accident he injured, and his eyesight lost. However, married life continued as normal, but after few days, she lost her beauty regularly. Blind person did not know about this, so, there was no difference in their happy married life. He continued love her and she also loved him very much. One day his wife slipped from stairs and died after few days due to head injury in hospital. Her death gave him great sadness and wanted to leave that town. A man asked his, now how will you survive without her? All these days your wife helped you. He responded, I am not blind. I was just pretending to be blind because if she knew I could see her ugliness, it would pain her more than her skin disease. So, I pretended to be blinded this whole time. She was a very good partner, I only wanted to keep her happy. Some time it is good for us to act blind and ignore one another’s short comings, in order to be happy. Ignoring the little harsh things in life can make easier your life.

If you have any self motive inside your mind for another person, if you any expectation from another person, if you any attraction from opposite sex, if you any emotions and feelings for another person then it is not a true love. When you think she/he is very beautiful, smart, educated, kind and you want this girl/boy then it is not a love, it is attraction.

In conclusion, these days huge number of youngsters are going through stress, the main reason behind this is nobody knows what true love is. Everyone has some expectations from their lover when it is not fulfilling, then conflicts arise between them, after few days it converts into stress. So, the first point is to understand the real meaning of true love and what is foundation of true love. Love is understanding the other person not a temporary feeling, attraction or emotion. Emotion and feeling change, it depends on situation, thinking and expectations. But true love is everlasting. If you can live together without expectation, if you can see another person continuously without coming any thoughts in your mind, if you can compromise your expectations for another person, this is true love.